I thought it was time for a quick update. Thigs have changed dramatically since my last post. I went to the attorney, filled out the papers and handed over the cash. He sent W a letter, and she came running back. Since that time, she has come around full circle. We are rebuilding our M, and the future looks bright. We have been back together since just before Christmas. W is remorseful, and is completely committed to saving the M. OM sent me a letter, expressing his regret, and his acceptance of the end of the A. We are going to a local MC, and are working out the issues that led to the big mess. Our passions have been rekindled.
I am so thankful to all of the helpful people here. I couldn't have persevered if it weren't for the sensible souls here that offered assistance.