Quote: I must be moving on. Too many lies, and too much repeated contact have eroded any hope for my M.
Sorry your work and motivations did not net you the results that would been favorable to you and Ms. csw.
Like most people here on the forum, I wish it would have worked for you as a couple. That third person in a R is a lot to overcome if a spouse will not give them up. You know you gave the R all you could and I commend you for that.
Some day if you want to post what seemed to work and what was a waste of time. I find things I do that work to a degree but it always seems something else pops up when one problem is addressed.