So I was wrong, he did not go out after the game. They played a double header and he arrived home shortly after my post last night.
I was pretty proud of my self. I went to him and said I had something to say. I told him I was upset about his choice and he said he knew he was wrong, but that he had already committed to playing softball before he knew about the concert and he would "make it up" to the boys. I reminded him that he had made a commitment to be a Father too. I asked him how we could avoid this in the future and he promised to put stuff on his calendar from now on when I tell him what is coming up.
So supposedly that issue is settled. I feel good about telling him how I felt, but I am still upset. I found out something else last night and I am not sure how to proceed with the info.
I am not sure I can even write about it here. Let me just tell you that a woman's intuition should NEVER be taken for granted.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011