Sara trys to figure things out

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I find it very frustrating because I never seem to be able to have much time to post anything significant here. I don't really dare access this page from home and at work I am always being interupted with real work!

This morning H and I had an exchange and I have been thinking a lot about it. I ask him to look at my computer and he was griping about our boys being on it. I said this had nothing to do with the boys it was fine when I went to bed last night.

He got very upset and said that whenever he makes a suggestion about the boys I always poo poo it. I was speachless. I am kind of glad I didn't say anything becasue I probably would have tried to defend myself.

Now that I have had time to think about it. I know I need to validate. I do not agree with what he said, but he sees it like that so how do I handle this?