Vent, vent, vent. Many of us feel the same way you do, why can't we just get a little help? Have you tried to make a list? put it in black and white. What he does, what you do. Track it for a while. Either you'll be surprised that he does a lot more than you think he does, or you'll be able to 'lovingly' show him that you could really use a little more help from him around the house.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.