Sara trys to figure things out

[RNC814]

I know something is wrong with me that makes my H do this

OK, two things:

#1 - There is nothing wrong with you

#2 - The only thing I see your H "doing" is using bad judgement/words in fights or ways of expressing himself

I HONESTLY think your marriage would be a whole lot better if you quit thinking something is wrong with it. Sure it could use some work, but so could just about every marriage in this country. Keep lines of communication open, and look to fill his "love tank" and you will be fine!