I honestly do not think he meant it when he said either, but he did say it and that means something was and is wrong. I say is because nothing has really been resolved to asure it not happening again. Well except for what I have been doing since discovering DB and him promising to tell me if he became unhappy again.

It was never said during a fight though. We do not and have never really fought at all. Probably one of our big problems right there, huh?

Looking back I can see that his MO each time before dropping the bomb is to become very withdrawn and antagonistic. Always when I asked if anything was wrong he said no.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011