Sara trys to figure things out

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Sometimes I do think I may be in the wrong place here at DB, but the fact remains that my H has three times in the past 17 years blind sided me with wanting to end our marriage when I thought things were going ok. This last time he carried on an EA with a total stranger while he was 5000 miles from home.

Again I can't be sure, but the way your sitch sounds, I flat out don't believe he meant it any time he said it. It much more sounds like to me a case of "fighting dirty" in a big fight. His ultimate trump card so to speak. A way of getting to "win" when he was in the middle of a fight he didn't want to be a part of and saw no other way out...