Sara trys to figure things out

[NNP1965]

Thank you so much for stopping by RNC. I really truly appreciate your input. You are right on about me being frightened to talk to him about certain things and now that I see it written, that doesn't look like such a hard thing to do.

I think you may be right about his LL being quality time. I have always thought mine was Words of Affirmation. I long to hear anything that would suggest he is proud of me or appreciative of me in some way, and I have asked flat out for those things, but I do not get them.

Sometimes I do think I may be in the wrong place here at DB, but the fact remains that my H has three times in the past 17 years blind sided me with wanting to end our marriage when I thought things were going ok. This last time he carried on an EA with a total stranger while he was 5000 miles from home.

I am trying like everyone else here to figure out what I need to do to make sure that doesn't happen again.

I am going to take some time to digest what you have said. I really want to stress how much I appreciate your input. I can take harsh.