Quote: Only thing is who is gonna take some stress off me?
Amen to that!!!! If you get an answer, let me know!
Seriously, this stuff takes time, right? Work on one issue at a time. Slowly, slowly, slowly. You've gained some awareness with your "lightbulb" moment. Now use it to your benefit and advantage.
Want to know what I'd do if he was sitting at the computer? Well, the kids would have to be in bed for my plan to work, lol. I'd make sure he had a good reason to step away from the computer!
I'd make sure he had a good reason to step away from the computer! 
