I normally take how he acts as something is wrong between he and I, when that is not really the case.
lol. This takes me back to when I was in the 'lightbulb' moment too, yeah, our H's worlds do no revlve around us, unfortunately Seriously, this is an important enlightenment. Sometimes by feeding off their bad moods we make things worse, when in fact the best thing is to chill, do upbeat stuff for ourselves, and soon their cloud will lift too. It certainly seems to be that way around our place.
I was hoping for an ILY. I didn't get that, but that's okay. Baby steps right?
Gosh - seems like something more than baby step here. He held that thought? Holy moly. Whatever you were doing, you need to do more of
came downstairs and it seemed like he closed out of what ever he was looking at on the computer. So who knows... I ignored it and sat down to watch TV with him.
Best response - act as if nothing untoward is going on, but continue to observe, I say. It seems to take them simply months to wean off an affair. Sigh.
Seriously, this is an important enlightenment. Sometimes by feeding off their bad moods we make things worse, when in fact the best thing is to chill, do upbeat stuff for ourselves, and soon their cloud will lift too. It certainly seems to be that way around our place. 
