It was a big deal and by my 180 of not calling him, he 180'd and called me to apologize! I am still marveling at that.
I went to the mall on my lunch hour with the thought of getting a few new things to wear. Have you guys been shopping lately? OMG everything is so ugly! Unless you want to dress like a 16 yo hoochy or an 80 yo Grandma there is not much to choose from. So that was disappointing. But I have decided this bonus is going to buy me a little something. I will do the responsible thing with most of it (like I always do) but as soon as I figure out something that I really want I am not going to tell myself no. Now I just have to figure out something I want. ideas welcome.....
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011