Glad to see what you posted...now, why don't you start with an *easy* one to work on.
Think of how things are now and how you would like to see them in the future....to me, this one you listed seems to have some easy ideas, although it may not you...
Quote: H seems to be slowly spending more and more time on his computer away from the family.
I don't know how old your children are, but can you perhaps start up a "game night"? Where all of you sit and play monopoly, cards, or...Twister? (devious mind here)...lol.
That would be a start in getting him "away" from the computer and woul dbrng the whole family together. And, if he doesn't want to "play", well then go about it just you & the kids....making sure he can hear all of you laughing & having a good time.
In my opinion, and my opinion only, I find no harm in looking at porn. I've bought my SO subscriptions to Playboy as well as thrown in his "movies" and watched with him...just to spice things up. I find the movies quite humorous, actually. Nothing really erotic about them at all. I won't get into it any further here, since I don't know how YOU feel about it morally. And that is what matters the most. If it goes against your morals.
But, anyway, how about picking "one" thing on your list that you think you can work on changing easily and quickly, post it here and maybe we can come up with ideas & suggestions for you.
