Excuse me? you're kidding - right? Sex and making love are two very different things. Sex is an act, physical need. Making love is caring about the other person, and wanting to please them and make them feel as good as you can, emotionally and physically. Making love doesn't just happen in the bedroom, it is an ongoing feeling of wanting to be with your partner and how you care about them and treat them all day every day.
Use of words (arghh) would just be to do you females a favour maybe work out and get in shape if you want to or think about trying out whatever he likes online As long as he is at his computer he's not going away.
I don't like most of these responses. Maybe I'm too sensitive because I'm of the female gender?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.