Man, still unpacking things and coming across alot of cards to her that she had saved. If only my actions and what I have written in those cards could be seen clearly by her...Maybe they would make a difference. They would to me. It is so sad to see where we were and knowing that we could strive to get back to that loving place; but it is her that needs to open up and see that it can work. I know it is probably hopeless; but why can't people, not just my X; but all that go through non-violent marriage troubles see that it is worth trying again???
We all make the assumption that it can't get better, when in actuality, it can and would based on the knowledge and self reflection that we do during this. I think separation or divorce is bad; but sometimes it is a necessary evil to bring us back to where we should be and realize what is important. However, in the same vein, people need to realize it is worth trying again.
