Well im in the same boat hubby wanted me gone, so me n the kids left well he e mails my mom sayd taht he dont wanna be married to me anymore n that he cant handle the fighting and the games well we have 2 kids ages 3 and 17 months, my 3 yr old is falling apart, well i e mailed him yesterday and he said that hes not sure if he wants to talk to me or be married to me but he still cares and hes undecided if he wants me n the kids back n that he loves the kids with all his heart blah , well i beleive his mom is filling his head up with bs and my friend e mails him back n forth asking him the same ??'s and he told her today that he believes that hes gonna go get the divorce and mail the rest of our stuff hes in oregon and im in ga now, he got outta the army last aug and hes been to iraq and he said that this has been going on since he got back from iraq and he hugged n kissed me goodbye when he took me n the kids to the airport the other day and my friend called him and he was crying but now he wants a divorce, why cant he tell me that??? i told him that i would give him his space and in the e mail he said well u said that u was gonna give me space so chill dont page me call the cell or call me at work, everyone said that they think hes depressed and the war in iraq messed him up and that he needs help but he wont go to counseling cause itll make him more mad and he just dont wanna, he keeps stuff bottled up and he was gonna explode, i love him with all my heart and i need help getting my family back together for the sake of me and my kids and he said that he doubts counseling will work for me casue i offered to go , then i finally talked to him on wed on ou 5 yr anniversary and he said that he wants the divorce n that hes getting an apartment with buddies, then i checked his e mail n he made a acct for tickle.com and he had some chick that he works with as a password, then he took my name off the bank acct, so im helpless, i broke down earlier and i wish he would snap outta it and let us come back casue i cant take much more of this PLEASE HELP SAVE MY MARRIAGE!!!
