I think it's great that you are there for her but maybe if you wern't always available then maybe she would realize what and how much you do for her and I have to give you credit b/c if I had to something for H and the woman that tore my family apart I couldn't promise that it would be nice for her . anyway I think you are a great person for all that you have done. I hope H and I can be friends after the D is final I think that will be in May joa.