Okay, now here's the weird part. I stopped off at a restaurant that I frequent often to grab some dinner before heading over to my friends house. Well, I am sitting at the bar and who comes in but my X and stepson. She looks over and sees me I wave and she waves back. So, I walk over and say hi and we all end up eating together. (They had a bout an hour because my daughter was at dance.) It was nice; but believe it or not I actually felt like I wish they hadn't come there. Not because I didn't want to sit with them or see them; but because I didn't want to overload her on me!!!