Well, she went and told him to leave her alone and if he didn't, that she has all the stuff he has given her and that she would give it to his wife. She called me when she was finished to let me know that she was okay on on her way back to get our son. She told me that he cried and told her why di you betray me, I loved you. Her response was no, you played me and I fell for it. SHe also told him that other neighbors had noticed stuff and also that someone else knew that he was like this before it even started (That would be me ;-) )
She told him to leave her the ---- alone and not to call her house again, etc.
She came to get our son and told me thanks. I told her no problem, I told you that I would be there. I then said we will have to chat about this some other time over coffee...she said ok. Then she drove off. I am sure there will be alot of ups and owns from her and there are no guarantees that she will want to ever work on an us; but at least she saw the light on htis guy and for her and my kids sake that is better.