You haven't shot yourself in the foot with anything otherwise she would simply stay away, but you are pushing the issue. Going by the old neighborhood and hanging out until she gets home sounds a little much. In my opinion, for every step she takes towards you, you take five. Doing things together sounds good, but it is the add on invites, etc, that may be too much.
My thinking is that now is the time to make sure you are continuing to do things for yourself as well. Frank, there may be a day or two of silence and there may be times she's aloof. You are way too focused on it. You still need to keep the focus on yourself and wait for her to be direct with you. Buddy, she knows you love her. She knows you'll be there for her. It's time to let her sort through her own things (by herself) and contact you when she's ready. There just isn't enough proof yet that she's quite ready. If you come on too strong I feel that she may choose to bolt. She needs to commit to a course of action that involves you.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
