Ok...another quick update and wierd twist??? My X came to drop of the kids at noon and my daughter states that my X might meet us at skating???? Let's see, she said last night that she couldn't because she was going to visit her friend??? Well, I said oh, you're going to go skating? SHe yes, I'll meet you guys there. Now this is the rink in our old town and she knows that I meet some of our old neighbors there.
So, she comes says hi to some of them and then I told her that our daughter wanted her to show the kids spins and jumps...She does and thentalks to some of the neigbors I know and seems okay with it; but at one point seems a little funky; but in the end is ok. About 5mins from the end of skating I hear her tell our daughter that she is going around one more time. Earlier I had asked her if she wanted to come to grab a bite with us before heading back and she said she had grocery shopping and cleaning to do at the house. So, I let it go.
She said bye and left before us??? One of my neighbors had asked her if she missed the old neighborhood and she said yes; but I had to leave because of the next door neighbors??? Hmm, seems like she is telling everyone that there was an issue??? Hopefully, that is helping her...For me, it just raises questions as to why she went...I know don't question it and I didn't....Was glad she was there; but inside hoping she went because of me...Hey, I guess I'll take what I can get for now. I just tried to leave her be and chattedwith her just like everyone else.
And I didn't hug her, etc. Trying hard to just let things take their course; but it is real hard.
Frank
P.S. I had asked my daughter earlier if she had asked her mom to go and she said no, she just took her skkates and said she might go???
