Tman,

That's good news. And I'm glad you could be there for her. You've got one difficulty though: She isn't quite done with OM. You have to be patient some more. She has to let him go without any help from you. She definitely needs time to herself and you need to back off and give it to her. From this point on she has to initiate everything. Believe me, she knows you care, you showed that, so if she decides to try again with you, she won't shy away from it. From where I'm sitting it seems as though you are afraid if you give her some space that she'll take the opportunity to run away. My opinion is that if she'll run away that easily that she's not ready for a real relationship anyway. She needs this time to be certain of you. If not, you'll always wonder when she's going to run away again or cheat on you.

PATIENCE Tman. You're going the right direction. Now don't act like you're just waiting on her call. Take the weekend to just not contact her. You need to consider things. Think about whether you are ready for a relationship with her.


In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt