I guess I know that every sitch is different; but I get inspired by what I see Just going through.
Also, I always question in my head why my X would let me hang at her house? Is it comfort of someone she knows or is it her wanting to talk; but not being able to yet? Who knows.
I do know this. She is afraid for her parents, who live next door to know that I am there; but she still alows it??? Also, she doesn't say no to going out to do something...she just fears spilling more of what she has done in the past year to me. So, I would ask everyone, if that is someone defintely knows that she doesn't want anything more with me or someone who is just having a difficult time working through how to get past all that has happened and be able to talk?
