Quote: ------------------- It might help to consider that if she suddenly came to you today and said..."I want to come back" whether you think that it would suddenly cure things. Could you honestly hit the ground running with her after all this pain and turmoil and her presence would just be a cure? Think how much of your feelings are wanting someone and how much are wanting her. -------------------
Actually, that is the part I am good on. If she ever did come back, I would have to have her agree to go wit hme to counselling or it would be no deal. There is no way, that we could ever make it without addressing what got us to the divorce. Yes, you could not go and luck out; but if I ever have a chance at fixing this, then that would be a requirement!!!.
