So, problem for the day. Still after a year, struggling with whether to stay in the area where we used to live and I grew up or to go to where I work and the kids now live??? Hard; because there is a certain comfort zone in the area I am now; but I feel like I should be nearer my the kids...(about 1/2hr drive right now) because whenever they want to be with friends, etc. I would have to say no or not see them when they are with me.
My biggest fears are that I will be lonely not being in an area where I know alot of people. Second, that if nothing ever works between my X and I, and I have not moved on with someone else and she has, that I will have to see that more often!!! :-( Thirdly, I start to wonder if a part of wanting to be here revolves around hopes with her and that is not a good reason to come this way.
Real confusing and emotionally draining...wish I knew what was right for everyone involved
