Plus if she gets a job she needs one with insurance. So, would mean at least 30 hrs...When would I have time to interact with her? And then she would be getting half of what I make and her jobs money. Why would she want someone like me. She will be getting a ton of money and will be better financially than me. So, she could just keep going the route of a scummy boyfriend. It's hard to support that lifestyle especially since my kids are growing up living with her. I should have fought harder to keep them; but thought I couldn't have won, that she was an ok mom and that we eventually would work things out. I find now that she probably isn't what I want my kids around right now. I mean with all she is going through, is she really, at this point a good influence on them? Whether it is confusion or just a total life change, is what she is doing the sexual aspects, the having dated a married guy, etc. good for them? What type of guy is she going to attract that will be around my kids if we never fix things?
