Ok...quick update...God must be playing a cruel joke on me...Got a call from my X and my 8 yr old is sick. It old her to let him stay home and i would see him later...She said it's Christmas, so he will want to go...I feel bad for him being sick on Christmas stinks.

On another note, that kind of throws a wrench in my above post with visiting and such :-(

Well, I still have to give my stepson his gifts, so there will be some contact and I told her I might still come hang for a bit with them...she didn't say not to. So, I'll play it by ear; but like a said God is playing a cruel joke on me and I don't think it's funny!!! ;-)