I like that -- that's what I call my grandson #1 (Tristan).
Anyway, I saw your post and I will try to respond tonight.
A couple of thoughts/questions to get you thinking, though:
1) How long were you married/together? MW says to plan roughly 1 month per year of the R. That seemed to hold fairly true in my case, even though there were a couple of derailments caused my own crazy-making.
2) Go back and read Gabe's post to you from about a month ago. He asks some very good questions and makes some very good points. You need to move your focus from your XW to yourself. What are you doing to care for yourself? To improve yourself? To grow? What are you doing to make yourself a better person, a better man?
