Posting in case Willow has time to take a look...Others can comment too...just looking for opinions and insights...
In addition, some thoughts I emailed to an old friend from DB:
X and I went out for a drink about a month ago and she wanted to go. Once we were out, I just talked about innocuos things. At one point she ended up telling me how she got involved with old next door neighbor, who is married; but claims it happened months after our separation...Still was talking to him when we went for drinks...BTW, that same night she I and the kids all went to a Christmas thing dowtown in the city she lives in...
Anyway, we went out and when she told me that, she started crying...4 times in fact!!! She never shows emotion??? She also said you wouldn't like me if you knew what I did. "I am not the person everyone thinks I am" I asked her if she was a lesbian and she said no...so, this is about her and that guy. Also, she swore she would never get one and she got a tattoo. Tells me not to tell her parents and hides it from them!!! (My daughter saw it too...she told her to not say anything either) Well, we walked out of there and she held my hand and gave each other a quick kiss goodnight...Since then it has been good; but she gets a bit standoffish...So as not to make it look like she needs me for anything :-(
We had originally agreed to go to a play together; but nothing has been out there to see...so, I haven't mentioned it in over a month. I did however get ahold of Billy Joel tickets and haven't been to a concert in a year because I don't want to go alone. I know she likes him and would like to ask her to go (Jan. 30); but not sure how and when to ask??? (She had even mentioned he was coming to town when we went for the drink)
