Thanks Just...I have been reading Wllwlk's post and find them insightful...If only I could see whether my X is being nice and is still confused or if she is just being nice. I guess you don't know. My issue is that I would like to fix things now; but I know the reality is that it does not happen in the time frame we want.
It gets hard to keep plugging along and hoping and not knowing if it will happen. I do know that I am not pushing and that everything I do about how I am is for me; but it is also in hopes that our family can fix things. This is really hard.
In addition, being single I haven't done some things I enjoy doing; because they aren't fun to do alone. For example, I have tickets to see Billy Joel. I really want to see him and I know my X likes him too...we used to go see him whenever he came to town. So, I would like to ask her; but am waiting for the right time. Just not sure what her answer will be and what she thinks my asking means. Actually, it means nothing other than 2 people going to see a concert they both would enjoy. Sure, it puts us together to have interaction; but that is not the primary reason for asking her. Not sure how to approach her about it.
