Nope, don't mind hijacking the thread...I guess I want to hear as much as possible so that I can decide on how to handle things with my X.

My biggest issue right now is how long might it take for her to let go of the other guy and start getting herself together again...Right now she seems to be in a mode of feeling like she is worthless and not worth love or anything...I wold loveto tell her she is; but I can't right now...she has to work out her own problems and that is hard to let someone you love do...You want them to know you support them; but you can't :-(

P.S. Falcon, just because u live in the house doesn't mean no guy will come by!!!