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please.........you have to try to talk to me instead of ignoring me for days ok? I've had one hell of a ride this past week or 2 with grandpa and life is too short to be angry at every thing that comes our way....don't you agree?

anyway call me ok? friends and parents forever............Shar






Nice e-mail. What are you doing that's giving her the impression that you are angry? I think you need to just be yourself...don't be all aloof and mysterious to keep her guessing. If you want to pick up the phone when she calls then you should do it. And if you are not returning calls or e-mails that just says that you are angry. I'm just saying don't go out of your way to show her how little you care.




Well what happend was, right after her affair ended she jumped right back into a relationship with some other guy, as it turned out that went no where fast. I stoped being angry.

She now has ask me to move back in, for money reason. I do love her so much but her being in a MCL and being sexualy abused as a kid this is not a normal MCL. She has slept with atleast 7 guys since we seperated in June. So do I just let her go on with what she is doing?

I did help her today with her rent. We had a nice talk lastnight and talked about what split us up. My biggest problem right now is she thinks sex is just sex. She says it means nothing to her. Im not talking about with me but with the other guys. I think she is acting out her abuse with these guys.

So not sure what to do now.