I am trying to be her "friend" to; but yes it is hard and yes I have alterior motives. All I want is for her to get rid of this guy; but I can't do anything about it....It's like she feels this guilt about it; but still takes his calls...Tells me it matters to her how I feel; but then can't tell me who she likes and is lost...So sad...Can't even tell her family...What happens if she cooses him what does she think will happen??? and what about our kids???
