Yea im scared to, I dont want to get to the point where I dont love her anymore but im affraid I will someday.
My wife was having an affair with a co-worker and he is married. It almost destroyed his marriage and really hurt my wife. I was there for all of it. The break up was hard on her and I had updates all the time. The wife called my wife and boy it got ugly. Im just glad now that they hate eachother and she saw him for what he was and he was just what I told her he was.
My wifes parents know almost everything because I told them. She was doing some of the stupidest stuff in the world and they needed to know. She lost her sister because of this, they are no longer very close like they were at one time.
My wife says she has no guilt but it does eat her up inside and I can tell it does. She once told me that she did not deserve my love. That might be part of the reason she is going out all the time she is trying to hide her guilt. She has time after time tryied to get me to sleep with soemone else, just to make her guilt go away. But so far I have not.
Stay as long as your heart can take but just watch it. Dont let your self get hopefull only to have those hopes crushed.
