Thanks for the reply...I just feel like she is so afraid that I will not accept whatever she has done...On the other hand, maybe she doesn't want to hurt me...If she loves this guy, she is messed up; becaus he is married and using her...
I love my kids and try to be there for them; but if the 2 of them ever got together I would be scared for my kids...
She won't even tell her parents about this or anyone.
What is it that drives people to go out with a marrid person.
I asked her if she was a lesbian and she denies that...Maybe she is bisexual, I don't know what is up with her...All I know is she is carrying around guilt for something and as much as I want to support her and help her...Iam not the person who can do that...I am too close to the sitch and I feel like I am in endless circle...
I love her would want her back; but it is so hard to keep putting my life on hold...She is one of 2 women I ever truly loved and letting go and never being with her again is so hard...I am lost as to how to cope or deal with this further...Do I keep the door open???
Insights, anything...I am afraid to let go; but feel I might have to.
