Been there man. My wife is flat out in the middle of a MCl. She got the tattoos the bellyring and she is 37 years old. She had an affair, she has been with 7 guys so far. She is not seeing anyone serious now. We to dated and we are still having fantastic sex right now.
Give her space, I dont call my wife unless its for my daughter, she calls me, all the time LOL. I got the "I love you but not in love with you" crap. I love my wife more then anything and right now she is going thru this jouney and all I can do is support her or just walk away, I choose to support her and be here for her if she needs me.
I dont know if I will ever get back with her but I do know we will be friends. She has caused ungodly pain to me and someday she will really know what kinda of man I am.
