Well, went out for drinks tonight an d she kept getting upset and telling me that she is not who everyone think she is...ANyway, what I got out of it is that after our divorce she screwed around with my married next door neighbor and he is still pursuing her; but she is willing to go out to a play and such with me and thenqualifies it as friends...THat's ok with me; but I wonder how hard do I fight to get her and how...I can forgive...

ALso, I dislike this guy som much and guess what, he has the same name as me :-(

She seems confused and not sure what to do...On one hand she seems to like this guy now; but then she will go out with me??? IS this wrth pursuing and how???

Definitely not sure how to successfully DB here; but I want to and not sure why??