X wife of 6 months been apart for 1-1/2 yrs...believe she was having an MLC...got tattoo, which she always said she never would do...had a boyfriend of some sort.
Anyway, everytime we would get along, she would pull back up until 3 weeks ago. She laid into me about a bunch of stuff...now it seems different???
I was with friends at the Santa Parade and she was their with parents...My kids were playing in the leaves on my side of the street...she came over and asked if we were looking for them...I told her no, we saw you over there. Well, we talked for a few minutes and then I asked her how her back was doing. She had slipped down the stairs a week before. She starts to show me her bruise on her back by pulling back her lower part of shirt and pants...Then she says, I am not going to pull my pants back any further lol
At this point I see tattoo on her belt line in front. I so, you got a tattoo, why MLC? She almost stares back in agreement. Then She says, yeah (Actually got it before she denied having one!!) Well, then she says don't tell my parents???? She says lots of issues and that she could use a drink...So, stupid me says "Would you like to get a drink sometime?" She looks back at me and doesn't know what to say. I tell her its a simple question yes or no? Well??? Then she says ok and then a few minutes later qualifies it with being a friendly meeting. I ask her when she might be free and she says she would have to work on it; because her only free time is when I have the kids. Well, she goes back and later in the parking lot I tell her I will give her a call about the drink...she says ok. We drive off.
No contact till Monday when she calls to verify our parent/teacher conference time. On Tuesday, I have to pick up my kids after meeting. So, just before leaving meeting, I say to her have you arranged anything to get out? She says she is working on it...So far so good I really thought she would back out. Well, now she is willing to tell her parents and ask them to watch the kids...She also tells me that there is a stroll downtown on Saturday and that we could all meet an go. I don't know what is going on; but I am leery to get my hopes up; but this is the chance I have been looking for and am afraid to blow it or press her...
Well, looking for thoughts on this from others who have been here???
