I can totally relate to you!! My D17 is very angry with her dad and she can sometimes stir the pot and cause so much turmoil in our house. She has a wonderful boyfriend and they have been together for 3 years. She tries to compare her dad with her boyfriend and says things like **** would never treat me that way, etc. We had a huge blow up last week and it left me feeling so torn, as I love both of them. She is leaving for college in 9 months and then I will be alone with the little kids. She doesn't seem to understand that I really miss my H and she can not understand why I forgive him for leaving our family. I think what it basically comes down to is that she is very upset that her dad is not at home anymore. She was always his princess and now that he has left me, she takes it as a personal offence against her. She doesn't get it that the whole family is suffering not just her. Her words and her actions can sometimes be so hurtful but I do understand why she feels that way. Although she thinks she is sooo grown up, inside she is still a little girl that needs her daddy
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
