The underlying reason for the affairs is a flaw in her character. NOTHING I did or said should have made her sleep around. You don't just throw away a marriage because you are lonely and depressed, and your husband isn't around to comfort you because he is working or hurt all of the time.
And I have tried to "get over them." Three years ago today she took a day trip to think about things while her parents, visiting from out of state, and I readied the house for Christmas. What I later found out was my wife was visiting her fat lover on his birthday and her parents knew about it! They were all smiles to my face knowing their daughter was out pi$$ing on her wedding vows.
Three years ago today this happened and it feels as terrible to me today as it did then. "Get over them" you say? If I could don't you think I would have?! I can't get over them! And I am stuck because I don't want to destroy my family with divorce, but I do not love my wife.
And her parents are coming for another Christmas visit today...Why am I wasting my life away living in the hell??? Can somebody tell me why I am so nuts!!!!
