I know hard it is to get over infidelity it took me a long time and I don't think I'm over it because there are times that I still want to kill her for hurting my kids and breaking up my family my H left in june b/c I couldn't stop badgering him abour her there affair went on for 3-1/2 years. I know how it plays in your head my thing now is all the things we have done as a family while he was with her and how many times he put my kids on the back burner so that he could be with her. He says he is not still seeing her and is just talking to her at work but I really don't know if thats true. My H has filed for D and now I'm just waiting for the new papers to come so all I can tell you is that as far as the infidelity you can't stop it and you can't make it go away it will continue to consume you for as long as you let or you can just accept itand move on with your life. I hope this can help you Joa,
