Since we're talking about bodily disfiguration... I had a cyst about the size of a lentil (caper, mung bean... can't think of anything else that small) on my outer private zone.... well just inside the outer but not quite in the inner... if you catch my drift. I've had it for years and years...

My bf used that as a reason not to Go Down There or even to touch me there. He actually said that to our second couples counselor... that "Lil has this cyst..." and the "eeeewwwww" was implied.

Well a while ago I took matters into my own hands and removed it-- a pretty simple uncomplicated matter involving ice and... well.... some other stuff. No big deal. That was at least 10 months ago. I told him it was gone right after I did it--- I implied it disappeared by itself, as cysts sometimes do-- and he has yet to see or feel for himself that it's gone. So I guess it wasn't such a big obstacle after all.