Lillie, Just wanted to report that H is having the cyst removed on Monday. I finally laid down the law and insisted he have it removed and we will set up a payment plan with doc's office.
I *hate* getting into the mother role and 'insisting' he do anything but what else could I do? It's already the size of a golf ball and bleeds when it's touched--gag!!!!
Men are so strange about taking care of themselves.
Update: Not too shabby around here. Not hot and steamy like last week, but not a famine either. All flirting is coming from me, but his job has gotten super crappy within the last 2 weeks and he's so *very* stressed he has a hard time unwinding at night. And of course, our little ones don't make conditions right for unwinding.
MrsNOP, Can I ask you a question? Do you think you could have undertaken the process for repairing your R when your daughter was little? MrH brings them up all the time as a reason why he has a hard time being sexual and I'm, frankly, not sure to what degree to believe this. Well "believe" is not the word I'm looking for, but I'm in a hurry. I'm not even sure what my true question is here...maybe something like, How much is reasonable for me to expect in light of the fact that he really *does* have a hard time with the noise and chaos concentrating on me and/or us. Then after they go to bed, he wants to go to sleep because he is tired from work. Sometimes I'm not sure what is reasonable to ask for, and what is being selfish and not understanding the difficulties that his temperament dishes up wrt being my sex god.
This is a perfect example of ramblicity (ty lillie) so ignore it if it doesn't make sense.
