Lassie, The talking about sex is one of the sweetest things about the whole thing. When we first started, we could not even say the words--it was terrible. SO awkward. I didn't know how to bring it up, what to say, how to convey my true self without looking like a total perv/degenerate.
Sometimes I can't believe that we've become one of those couples who talk/joke freely about sex. With my H's religious hangups I think we'd have been voted Most Likely Not to Succeed at this.