Just IMHO, but I'd say the instant desire level when you turn him dowm comes from the immediate release of 'pressure to perform.' So if you want desire from him, and turning him dowm seems to get the desired result, so to speak, why would you NOT play the 'resisting female,' turn it into a game... help him, in the process, find his desire, and you get awesome sex?
So, it's a game. SO? How's this any different than wearing sexy underware? Isn't that an act of seduction, on one level?
Big dam deal, in my mind. Go with what works. Use it to your advantage. Have FUN with it... what else do you have to do? Where else do you have to be? If it adds spice.... when in Rome... etc., etc.
