There is no attraction in pursuit.

This goes both ways HP. I know its hard to understand. I had a gf who if I faced her squarely when out or just sitting around, I could literally see her become uninterested. If I ignored her, and went about with my stuff she would play these seduction games.

It was interesting.

anyways

is my turning my back on him (which is unusual) an aphrodisiac in his world

actually yes. receptive female mammales present there backsides to their desired males... Watch any music videos on BET lately? the booty dance seems to have risen? fallen? to a new level lately....

keep babystepping. or tell him his programming bugs you and wonk him on the noggin.