Quote: So last night arrives and he makes some lame pre-emptive strike and I just nicely rolled over and said good night. No hystrionics or snide remarks, just good night and rolled over. I have to stress again that I was nice and warm while doing this. He instantly draws close to me and is affectionate and offers to ML. I told him I appreciated the fact that he's always willing to do it, if I press the issue, but that I was not interested.
Is it possible that that "lame pre-emptive strike" was a conditioned response just rearing it's ugly head....and that when you rolled away he snapped out of it? I'm just wondering if you might not have shot yourself in the foot when he did cuddle up and as if you wanted to ML.
