Honeypot,
Don't underestimate yourself. You've clearly done plenty right.
And yes, of course, I have high respect for MrsNop, but you seem to be so similar to me in many ways. Two HD women who can't help but drive their H's batty with our sex issues Drove my H so batty he left Not that I am taking the blame but I know I had a role. And just like your H, my H is now plugging away too. so there is hope.
Sorry about your hair. What's with all the Lion references
Glad you are feeling calmer. May need to take a chill pill myself