Oh girl, just do like every other sensible person does and emulate MrsNOP.

I am a model for "What Not to Do."

If you google my threads, there is a disclaimer to not try this at home.

I'm tellin ya, it is only due to the good personality of my H that we've come this far. I seriously did everything wrong and he kept on plugging. If you think I'm exaggerating, ask Corri.
More than a few times she told me to take a chill pill and I couldn't seem to do it.

Actually, I think that my body is going through another hormonal change which is allowing me to feel calmer and more in control of the Gotta Have Its. My hair was falling out rapidly this summer and now it's growing back in and I feel yet another change in my personality and moods, so I'm sure my hormones are doing something weird again. Not to mention my HAIR! Oy.
I mentioned it in conversation to GGB once, that my hormones may be returning to normal b/c my hair's grown in about an inch (and fringes around my face) and he replied that that was good, as he's heard the Lion look is in this year.

Anyway, I think this physiological change has had good timing as things seem to be working out. Any bit of patience and calming down physically helps me tremendously. I've never been a moody person but I've always kindof been on high speed, physically speaking.