Lass, I am the Queen of Self Sabotage. I get ahead of myself, trying to do everything at once, making ASSumptions about him, letting my fears rule my actions, etc etc. It aint pretty.
It is a legitimate issue...what can I do to get the frequency to a level that works for both of us (currently we are not even meeting HIS preference!) without having to resort to JGI, all the time. But the way I went about it sucked.
